We hadn't really established that we had broken up and he is not necessarily my co-worker. He is a subcontractor for the building. I have worked with his company before I even met him. They are actually employees of our condominium.
Thank you all for your advice and words of wisdom.
I know that this man has little - if nothing - to offer me but distress and manipulation and lies.
I just wish it could be easier or that I could be stronger.