Originally Posted by
Lovestoomuch 
I'm sorry to be so blunt but...........that's the biggest load of crap I've ever heard!! OMG...........don't even entertain that thought in your head for a second. My ex spent 45 days in jail for violating the restraining order for the 2nd time and told me straight out that television makes it seem way worse than it is............especially county jail. Maybe that stuff goes on in big prisons but give me a break already.
Loves is right. Rape is not common in county jail !!!
In prison it does happen, but even then, it's not quite as common as they show on TV shows like "Oz", etc. I know this from people with lots of first hand experience in prison and jail who told me.
He's trying to gain your sympathy and scare you.
What's up with that appt. he said he made?
He trying to manipulate still, and he's also moving from one form of manipulation to another. Trust me he will try several different strategies...don't fall for it!
He will do just about anything to try and come back and not face reality.
I know how it goes, I've learned from the master manipulator.
I'm glad you told his dad, now you don't have to keep secrets from everybody and deal with it on your own.
How did the dad react?
Have you told the kids Yet?
Hang in there, and don't return the emails!