Old 06-08-2007, 10:40 PM
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raerae6
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Lundy Bancroft

"Why does he do that?" by Lundy Bancroft

I finally got the last name!

Drained wife, they say that codependent people have a hard time making decisions..

I know I often have a hard time deciding on even fairly small things....

I think that sometimes we can get beaten down by things, or rather people in our lives and we become unsure of ourselves and don't have enough faith in ourselves to believe that we can make the right decision....

Just keep gathering information, look at it from differnet angles...look at it logically...look at your feelings...journal your thoughts as they come to you and look at it later...you might see patterns.

It just seems like you are kind of frantic...like you think you have to decide EVERYTHING RIGHT NOW!

Maybe take a break for a few hours...go to a funny movie with the kids or something.

Maybe get a message.

The world will not crumble if you don't decide right away!
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