i dont know if im ready, its all happening so fast, first the TRO (temp. res. order) then the PRO (perm. restr. order) an then filing for divorce..but ive been thinking about it for a long time, knowing that i cant live like this anymore, that "this" is not a marriage, nor is it a health environment for my kids. But i havent had the courage to do anything about it until i was "forced into it" by his actions of abuse.