I just call him by his name or son, unlsess posting here then it is AS. I don't think I can make him feel any worse about himself than he already does on his own. I've never been one to express Anger in this situation except the very 1st time I knew there was a prob. because of stolen checks + lies. He hasn't lived with me since. I do understand how nif you had an active user in your home it would be easy to go from normal to raging Bitch in 10 seconds.