I don't know why they just can't help hurting us((((queenteree))). Here is hoping you will both have the space and detachment it takes to be who you really are.
You may or may not know I have been asking my H to leave for well over a year now. My H is a womanizer he says he is not but, I know different he uses crack too. I told him last night I don't know how I got hooked up with someone who has to such obvious "deal breakers" for me. I told him that I am not judging him as wrong just what he does is hurtful to me and that makes it wrong for me...
I asked him did he enjoy being with me he said no he does not and I then asked him how soon could he move. I don't want any big drama I ain't trying to be mean I am just done done done....