In the checklist for are you an alcoholic...isn't there a question about the kind of company you keep?
I had quite a few unkind things to say about the people my exabf hung out with.
No excuses for myself but I think we get frustrated and we have a love for those that are our addicts...but the ones who keep bringing it around and calling and etc....yeah we are going to get mad at them.
In truth some of them are wonderful people with messed up lives and some of them are really just jerks. Like the rest of the world.
But I am very grateful for your post and the new insight it gave me! Thank you.
BTW...I am addicted to cigarettes and I call myself a junkie in that respect. I still love me, it's just the truth.
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