also, no matter where i put my little step ladders, one those days, they'll end up in weird places, and with my kids always being around, it makes it kind of hard for me to be doing all of this looking without looking crazy to me and to them.
either way, i do believe now that whether he is here or not, he can always get in and do the same things that he's been doing. only thing is that when he's not living with us, i'm always feeling like i'm being watched. i have master bath and for some reason now he uses the hall bathroom more at certain times. i know this all sounds so crazy, don't it.