Teke,
This proves the lengths that the addicted will go through in order to stay in their addiction by putting the attention and blame on someone else.
You've seen the light now, Teke. Don't look back. You know what you know. Try to remember that. If it were me (and this is just for me) I'd cease contact because this man definitely is messing with your mind. If he's not allowed into your life, then you are more free to start seeing things more clearly.
And Teke, I don't know if you go to meetings, but meetings are where I can tell people, "I think I'm nuts. Does this make sense to y'all?" And everyone at the table shakes their head cause they know the insanity of living in addiction. So if you can find meetings, make them Teke. There is HUGE support in face to face recovery.
Love you and hang in there. Ask you HP to step in and keep leading you to the light. He will.
Hugs,
Hangin' In