Originally Posted by
finallyout 
loves, i just wish someone had asked my permission before i was "chosen"!! no, i guess not, i definately would've opted out and i know there must a reason for all this.
LOL, I think I started the choice by res\fusing to accept love unconditionally from those who offered it. Instead I was determined to seek it where it couldnt be found. Now if someone offers it I will try to remember to embrace it. Maybe I should have a candle party and invite all those people who've reached out and I shoved away (or is than manipulative, cause if they buy candles, I get some freebies?)