aw, my heart is with you. seeing any child cry out of dissapointment is very hard. I know you don't feel strong now, it builds in time. you really do nedd to give him some tough love.. you need to cut him off. he needs to work on himself and ehrn he is done .. baby steps back into your daughter's life. if you do marry him, my opinion is your jumping into an ocean with no life raft,and taking her with you. YOU are stronger than you give yourself credit for!! the power of prayer for you and your daughter..you 2 are the ones you need to look out for! and it sounds like your doing great! just change your number and dont tell her when he calls. god bless you both.