QUOTE; Tryingveryhard
Any advice on breaking my codependency?
For me I guess, had enough when I couldnt function properly. I was addicted to his addiction, if you know what I mean. You will never stop worrying about your children, especially when you know they are hurting themselves. But there comes a time when you stop blaming yourself and let them take the responsibility for it, that it all comes together. Somehow.
We can not control them or how they decide to live their life and if we enable them it will never stop because they always have mum to come back to.
Let him know you will always be there for him, but as the man or boy you knew before.