my ah called me once with the same options, either i take him back or he'll just move on with this other woman that he had met. yeah, he had met another woman alright, it was another crack addict that he just used to try to manipulate me into taking him back. i think he's just quacking, the baby's mom may not want him either, and if he was really serious about getting back together with you for the good of you both, in my opinion, the issue with the baby mom, would not be an issue for you two