Hey Girl,
I too got to the same place. Even though I got LOTS of advice (not just here on SR) that NO CONTACT meant no contact. I think the difference, at least for me, was I had finally gotten to the point where my "motive" was not to get a "reaction" that my codie self could take and run with, but instead becuase of who I, ME, CE Girl AM in my core.
I did it, it was done and you know what? I stopped having relpases. Ok, spirits, I'm not taking that for granted. I'm well award we have to be ever so vigilant on the relapse thing. Much like the A, our disease is cunning and will take ALL prisioners if we let out "programs" down.
I'm familiar with the bit of "serenity" your letter had on YOU.
Glad you had a good time last night
Just curious, did he respond? Do yuo have a plan if he does?
I know, I had to think about that before I sent MY letter
Peace