well, no taking the high road here. i offered him the perfect solution. the perfect way out. he won't take it.
his parents spend the summer out at the campgroud every summer, so their house is completely empty. he could go there and spend the whole summer. it wouldn't cost us any money.
of course, he won't go because i am the one who wants the seperation-not him. he loves me and wants to be with me and wants to make it work and his name is on the deed so he doesn't have to go anywhere.
i told him i was simply giving him a chance to do the right thing and work through this together. he says he is not going to make it that easy for me.
he has went to AA meetings the last two nights however