((((rozied)))) i know how you hurt.my son has done the same things,leaving the messages.it makes you feel ready bad sometimes.this is part of their consequences.it could also make me madder than heck that he would call & call up to 50 times a day knowing i was not going to answer.,almost like he was punishing me.they have time on their hands & my son just stays on the phone calling whoever.turn him back over to your H.P. maybe this will be the time he learns his lesson.i am saying a prayer for you & him both.