You need to be a "Special Someone" to you, your value of you comes from within, no one can give that to you.
You plant a seed within you, you nurture it, and, it grows into a flower, one that all sees as beautiful. A beautiful flower demands respect and is desired by all.
Plant that seed and watch it grow, you will see a change in how others treat you, because you will now demand the respect and love you are entitled to.