Live I had to learn to let go of resentments about the house cleaning and such thats just not his thing. Yet he will get out of bed at anytime of the night to kill a spider for me not always with a smile but he does do it. I have to learn to let go and learn to understand. Like yesterday he let me sleep in and had all the potatos peeled and everything chopped for the potato salad and I was just so happy about it yet instead of showing my happiness about it I got in a bitchy mood cause the dishes werent done. Trust me the dishes werent nothing compared to peeling and cutting 10lbs of potatos. I need to show my appreciation for the little things he does do instead of stewing on the things I wish he would do. Thanks for showing me that would make me happier. Oh let me know how the standing in front of the tv works lol.