((Angulimama)) We all have to find what is right for each of us.
Though I also see a lot of this:
there are so many unhealthy, crazy, egoistic people who use the meetings as a grand stage for their "recovery". There is a great deal of talking about spiritual values, but very few genuine examples of these values, other than a lot of rhetoric.
What I try to remember is that the majority of us are still learning... not just about how to stay sober, but how to live life. My job is to look for the shining examples of true recovery that I can follow. If I see someone struggling and recognize something in them that I really don't like... I might have a bit of that in me.