Old 05-24-2007, 12:53 PM
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raerae6
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If you say something about it, he will just hide it more. He probably won't stop. It's always kind of creepy to find your man's porn stash, whether it's on the web or whatever. Most men look at porn regularily, (and a lot of women do to) and it's not such a big deal I think if it's not out of control-like an addiction-and if he isn't messaging women online. Just because a guy looks at porn, it doesn't neccessarily mean that he is comparing you to them and that he isn't attracted to you. If I look at another guy and enjoy the way he looks, it doesn't mean that I don't like the guy I'm with any less. I know it hurts and can make a woman feel like she is inadaquite, but if he still is attracted to you, and he's not obsessed with it, it's probably not such a big deal. If you husband is a coke head, sometimes people on coke get hyper-sexual and it might be associated with that, in which case it's the drug that's the problem.
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