I made a boundary about this when my husband when we first became intimate...he could have all that and everthing and anything and anyone OR me. Should I discover anything disrespectful I would move to the other bedroom immediately. What next, I don't know because I am pretty sure I will not be in this situation. We covered it before...and have learned alot about each other and our boundaries, and about our sexuality together. Not that there have not been some disagreements or things to be worked out. Together.
Marriage is union, right?