wants to know if Ill get back together with him or if he should move on to an old girlfriend who he has a son with.
This does not sound like a loving, caring man who will give you what YOU need in life. It sounds like a man DEMANDING to be cared for... and if you won't, he will move on to someone else... immediately.
You deserve a man who deserves your love. Who gives to you, is devoted to you, demonstrates his love for you and lifts you up and helps you be the BEST you.
My prayers are that you can find that man who is ALREADY out there... ALREADY sober... he is waiting for you to turn your head and open your eyes.
(((Hugs)))