Rainy,
Just a question....is your husband sober now?
If not, if our actions don't cause it, can't cure it and don't control it, then why does not having a beer or glass of wine mean anything?
I am not asking this to be difficult or ugly, but if it really doesn't matter what we do ...they are going to make their own choices, then why do we have to change who we are to "help" them.
I completely understand if they have requested it or are sober.....but if they are actively using.....aren't they going to continue no matter what we do......
Don't get me wrong.....I seldomly buy beer or even drink, but there are occasions that I may have one.......I don't think it changes what my husbands choices are......
Does that make sense?
Sorry to ramble, but I never can put down what I mean in writing!!! URGGGGGG!
Blessings,
Constant