Dear(((((Rachel))))))
Welcome to Sober Recovery!! I feel that you are well rid of this guy. He started out not being honest with you and I seriously doubt that you have yet seen the real person that he is. I am very glad that you did not become phyiscally involved with him.
I hope he doesn't find someone else but, he may find someone who doesn't look too deeply or have enough self respect to ward off his advances it will be their loss if he does.
I know you must be hurting. Get some therapy or go to alanon or naranon for support and you can come here too. I think you were right on to not have sex with him!! You go girl!!