I'm almost certain that she won't be seated with the family, unless RAH's sister wants her to be. RAH and his brother do not get along with her much either. But as Grandpa and the rest of the family keep saying she's the EX wife, not family and if she causes anything Grandpa will more then likely put her in her place as well. He's already more then a little peeved with her. The DAY AFTER Dad passed she was calling to find out about insurance on him. Very poor timing, in my opinion. Unfortunately, we've also found out that her name is still on the house.... not good. Apparently it was the one thing that was never settled in the divorce. She's already been trying to talk BIL into selling it and kicking GF out. I guess BIL told her she'd better sign it over to them(RAH,BIL,&SIL) or she'll be the next one laid to rest.