i don't know cinder, he supposedly moved into a hotel, don't know how true that is but he calls them i guess to let them know how he's doing from time to time, and my ss sees him when he works with him. i really don't think he's concerned about me and these kids, i think he's found another life plus addiction. don't have to know for sure, don't think he'd tell the truth if asked. so............. gotta move on somehow.