my stepson stopped by and wouldn't you know, it opened some wounds for me. say he worked with dad last wk, but haven't heard from him since i guess, and he still haven't contacted these kids or sent them anything. i want to ask his mom if she has heard from him but i don't want to give him the satisfaction. when she talks to him, she let him know that i ask and i don't think he needs to know about us but i also think sometimes that that is why his family comes around sometimes, just to see whats going on with us.