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Old 05-19-2007, 08:39 PM
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cinderellawkids
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I think your analyzing it to much and that guys dont think that way. I think he was placing blame, and acting inappropriate as a sponsor.
He is human and imperfect himself he cannot possibly know what your AH is gonna do, noone does not even your AH.
Only you can decide whats right for you and your family. I for a long time let AH do his thing and deal with consequences, but he always had food, power a place to live. I finally for me decided it wasnt working that way and nothing was changing. Its lasting because I made the decision for me and my kids we couldnt keep going through the pattern adn he needed to show actions first. If I had done it for any other reason, like before, hoping he'd feel remorse x t, I would never have stuck to it even this long. And Is till hope he'll get it together and eventually come back here, when its fairly safe to think it will go well. You need to analyze your needs and your childrens needs and nothing else
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