Awe Lynn,
Sounds like one bad apple got you all turned around.
I've made mistakes, and I've done wrong and I've been wronged...we all have.
But its up to me to figure out how I'm going to live in this world, and up to me to do it, just as its up to your son.
Your son may be going through one of those "spells" that many do. They just don't have the tools yet, and its easier to blame. I hate to bash our society but we've made it easy for everyone to blame everyone else.
I've heard our kids generation be called the "me generation".
It may sound cruel, but I've finally come to the conclusion that my kids need me a heck of a lot more than I need them right now. I remind them of that every so often
Hang in there
((((Hugs))))
Cece