Wow, this is amazing. I had asked you do something for me earlier today and you did and I wanted to find somewhere to thank you. Thanks. But, now the weird thing, a few months ago, maybe even a year or more, I was having problems coping with a partner that was still using. I was extremely suicidal and I went on-line for help. This page came up. I just read what it said and that was the last I saw it until today. So, thanks again, your words helped get me through. I did not want to call a hot-line in my city because I have often, much earlier in life, ended up in handcuffs (for my own protection, they say) when I was feeling suicidal. Also, they have put me in hospital after hospital to "observe" me. My God, I felt like a plant, most of the time. They wouldn't talk to me. I felt I was being punished and I couldn't for the life of me figure out what I had done wrong. God Bless