Sis,
You are so right, thank you. He has had to deal with alot and I won't go into the details here but he has been through alot of pain, disability and ongoing issues besides this. I think that's what has me in a spin...that this could affect him in other ways. We always 'get through' and I'm thankful for the strength God gives us, I'm just tired of it. He's one tough guy and has amazing faith! btw for those who don't know us too well...we have been together since 1972...married over 33 years!
Thanks to all. It could take anywhere from 4-7 hours to perform the surgery. It is a Mohs procedure being done and this doctor is one of the best around. The doc said that hubby should be able to return to work on Monday....but I want to keep him home with me!
I'll be doing plenty of recovery work tonight and tomorrow....lots of letting go and letting God, plus trying to make sure I take good care of myself, while I take care of him. I had a brownie and a glass of milk for lunch today.
hugs to y'all,
cmc