I hated the anger and the chaos when she didn't get her way - so I learned to give her what she wanted.
Not to hijack here..but this just sent on the lighbulb in my head Bigsis..hadn't looked at my life this way..thanks
Kim992, I have the same issue witha few enablers I know..I used to be the leader of the pack, so its hard to see others doing it now that Im no longer enabling.
I agree though, until one has had enough and wants a different life for themselves, nothing changes in alot of cases.