Yes! There are a few days that I wanted a padded cell....for MYSELF
Unfortunately, I think someone has to be a danger to themselves, or others, before it's even considered. And even then, I believe they have to be evaluated....and I don't know of very many alcoholics that couldn't lie and manipulate their way outta that too.
It's still his problem, not yours...he has to wait for a bed....you don't. He is manipulating his mom, not you. He is 2 hours away from you....that's got to be a good thing!
Stay strong.