(((Marle))) I'm glad your felling a bit better. Indeed it is a tough one, but good for you for knowing what is out of your hands. I think it was perfect, the offer for her hair when she is ready. That way it is still a special thing from mom if she so chooses. I so pray she is getting sick of things the way they are & will soon be ready to work on her recovery. But untill she is, you keep up the awesome job on yourself.