There was a time the thought of jail horrrified me. Now, I'm grateful AS is in a regulated environment with buddies, fed, clothed and safe.
Moose's sons were both in jail not long ago and they've found recovery. There is hope WW.
I honestly believe our addicts know they can try and get themselves together and even get a rest in jail.
Certainly it's not any Mom's dream for a child. Remember son's actions got him where he is...not you or anything about you.
Hugs