Safe, sane and sober.... what more can you ask for? I am glad you don't have to worry about him for at least a week. You might consider blocking incoming calls from the jail - there is nothing he can get from you that he REALLY needs.
My husband took me on a vacation weekend a couple years ago to Victoria, BC... we rode up on the Victoria Clipper (catamaran!). He wanted it to be so romantic, but I was all twingled up about both kids' addictions... it was nearly impossible for me to even talk to him.
Then I got a call while on the ship - son was in jail. I checked, and daughter had returned to rehab. Both were in a form of "lockdown"... for the weekend, both were "safe".
Best damned vacation I EVER had. I cannot remember a time I felt so free.
Relax this week....enjoy the spring. Maybe you and the wife can take a drive and just focus on each other for a while. ((((Laketime)))