When I read your post it sounded all too familiar to me. My RAH did the same thing. That is what eventually led to me making him leave. That was 3 months ago. Now is has hit rock bottom and is about to enter rehab. He is 9 days clean (whoo hooo). He has made up his mind this time. Well he has confessed alot of things to me in the past few days. He told me that he altered every drug test that I ever gave him. Except the last one, the one he failed. He always volunteered to take them. He never put up a fight. I always knew in my heart that he was altering the tests, I could just never prove it. You are in my prayers.
~M