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Old 05-10-2007, 12:29 PM
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duet_4-8
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I agree with others above. It sounds to me like he is playing the game they all play so well. My ex keeps quacking that he is going to get tested to prove he is not using, but it's been 10 weeks now since we seperated and he has yet to do it. Has all kinds of excuses. Quack....quack....quack...

Not that the results would mean anything to me, anyway, because his character hasn't changed at all and that is the bottom line for me. Actions, not words. He could be clean for months and then relapse. He's done it for 25 years.

I think you did nothing wrong and that if he were really serious about recovery then he would do whatever you asked him to in order to regain the trust that he destroyed. Trust your gut. You know him better than he even knows himself. Red flags all over the place.

Take good care of YOU and those kids. You are worth it!
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