teke, i agree, he can find it anywhere. And, no, HE's never moved, lives in the same town he grew up in, I moved out of state 4months ago when I left him. I think the move helped me distance myself emotionally from him, but its a whole different ball game for him. Oh, I was reading some past posts, and did I read that you raised 7 kids??!! OMG girl, you're my new hero & quite an inspiration. I think four is crazy, can't even imagine 7!