finallyout, i'm glad to hear that you are off to a good start, i can't imagine having two in pampers, youre good. i'll pray that you will find that perfect job and that your husband will do just fine when he gets out. you'll know when the time comes if you'll be able to handle his calls and if not then you'll know what to do, just try not to break any phones, think first, that means you'll have to spend money buying another one.