Me too Blues, me too.
I dont think necessarily that there is a lesson, except maybe we really werent that complete before or we wouldnt have gotten into this situation.
My MIL and I were talking about me since I knew her first. When we first met she is sure I would never have enven gotten close to her son and I do remember thinking what a loser. But 9 months later, I was feeling poor poor pity me, he started coming around and I was so flattered that this young hip guy noticed me... before I knew what was happening I was in deep lust and an addiction I couldnt break free from