Lanie I am sorry that u have been betrayed by people who u called friends I think that hurts the worst. Maybe they are in total denial and since they didnt relapse on their DOC then they dont think this is a problem give it time they have the tools to figure it out. I would be angry and hurt too. Its hard as u know not to relapse. Sometimes the drugs have such a pull its too hard to walk away but I would imagine after years of sobriety it would be alot easier. Its addiction sad but true it does bad things to good people. Stay on the right path with your sobriety and keep fighting the good fight.