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Old 05-07-2007, 11:10 PM
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Taking5
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First, keep in mind that although it may be inadmissible in a criminal court, but not necessarily in a divorce court.

Second, tell him you are not looking to go to court, so you are not worried about admissibility. Tell him you are worried that you are married to an addict that is in denial and won't get help.

Bottom line show him you mean business, and that you will go to any lengths to find out if he is using. Then turn the tables back on him: Does he mean business? If so he can do a number of "legal" things to prove he is not using - voluntary drug tests, for example.
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