Thanks, Teke. Praying for you too. I think about you and your AH situation sometimes in looking at my own situation with AH. (currently in prison) It's hard to not play god sometimes and try to fix everything. Then, I feel guilty (maybe a little controlling) when I stick to a boundary such as hanging up on AH friday nite when I didnt like the way he talked to me. Of course he called back over and over until I took the phone off the hook. Then I did take his call the next day and he was full of apologies, etc. But I'm not sure I like him that much anymore. Just venting I guess.......