i'm beginning to think that in working on my recovery from codependancy, a lot of different kinds of relationships that i have had, has effected me in one way or another. i'm now not wanting to deal with drama of any kind that causes me discomfort. sometimes people don't understand the change, but what do you do? i know now that i can't fix everything, i can't make everybody feel better at the expense of my own peace. now i'm feeling like i'm percieved as the enemy, when all i want to do is be at peace. you guys are right, there are a lot of toxic people in my circle, that i no longer feel the need to be there for. i think negativity begat negativity and thats not a good make for healthy living. i'm just not god and i'm not called to do what only he can and i'm finally realizing that it ok.