No, I meant attend open meetings once a week together. A meeting where he DOES NOT share. Here on Friday nights we have a rather large meeting with over 200 people who attend to hear a guest speaker. No one shares at the meeting. I figured that was real neutral.
He says he wants to keep his AA life and our private life seperate. Although he attend meetings about five times a week. I think there is something more. In the beginning, he wanted me to go...actually insisted. After I agreed, he changed his mind.
I told him I am going to go to a meeting regardless with our without him. My sponsor has suggested attend one open meeting a week...so I will give it a try.