Originally Posted by
venusinlibra 
I am on the fence about this. I prefer knowing the truth good or bad. It helps me to understand and really figure out if this is what I really want.
I may be misreading your post - if so just ignore LOL!
Are you saying you want to hear your boyfriend's shares/stories - the truth, good or bad? If so, I'd have to wonder if I pushed to attend meetings together if he ever would share. Then what? Do I force how his recovery is done? How many resentments would build from this?
As harleygirl suggests, I found open AA meetings extremely helpful.