why do you know so much about what your ex boyfriend is doing with his weekends?he is done--thats how you need to think and act--he is pursuing you? How? You need to detach.
you have a nice new man standing in front of you--don't let him get in the middle of that.
He was your boyfriend
you were not married
you have no children tgether
kick him to the curb and count your lucky stars...
Why should you care if he is seeing his ex? who cares?