Thanks. I have felt better the last week since I "met" all of you. I wish I had found ya'll sooner.
I try to understand, but still don't. I know it is manipulation and once again her being the "victim". Why is that some say "hands off" however it is also a "family disease"??? seems double standard to me. What really makes me mad is we ALL did our part--the meetings, rules, consequences. we all did "the program" except her!
I wish it had a return address, I'd return to sender. On the back of the envelope she wrote" Please read before you throw in the trash" How the hell can you love someone and KNOW you are hurting them and keep on??? I was a rebellious hell raiser at 18, graduated, left home and my parents didn't know my mistakes. I worked, took care of me. When I married at 20, I grew up and never looked back. I made my mistakes, I live with them, and God has forgiven me. actually pretty simple!