((Rozied)) A little something my son e-mailed to me. You probably heard this before, but it's always good to read and re-read.
One of the first changes we can make is to let go of others: their opinions, their behaviors, and their responsibilities. Our need for them to fulfill our expectations is related to our insecurity, not theirs. Every time we preach or take on others duties, we must recognize that we are preventing much-needed growth, our and theirs.
Our intentions might always have been good. But the time has come to let others live their own lives. It's quite enough to take care of ourselves.
I find when I am feeling torn this is a good read.
Do what is right for you............Lo